Facts About Make-Up Sex
If you and your partner use make-up sex,
you can avoid talking about your worries or replace apologies for inappropriate treatment with sex sessions after a fight. Make-up sex almost always disappoints you. And it can ruin your relationship.
Of course, every partner is different, and I am by no means an expert in healthy relationships. However, I can tell you from personal experience that sex makeup can be really annoying at times. Here are five things no one tells you about sex makeup.
It will not make you forget what you were fighting for
Despite the lies that romantic comedies will try to tell you that make-up sex does not cause selective amnesia. I mean, really hot make-up sex can distract you and your partner from time to time about something you've been struggling with. Now that allows you to go beyond arguments for days or even weeks. However, it won't make you forget what you've been crazy for.
Unless you and your partner solve a problem, you fought before getting naked, doing all the make-up sex will end the sexual relationship but delay another fight for the same issue that needs to be resolved.
Not always hot
If you've ever had make-up sex, chances are you've found it yourself. However, if your knowledge of make-up sex is limited to film and television, or if you are just lucky enough to have had all the satisfying make-up sex experiences, let me be the first to tell you. Make-up sex is not naturally sexy. In fact, in my experience, make-up sex can be frustrating at times.
If you do make-up with your partner just hoping that it will magically cure both of your bad moods, the chances are that one of you will surprise you. Also, a lack of sexual satisfaction can make you frustrated with each other even more.
Disappointing make-up sex makes things worse
If you and your partner put too much pressure on make-up sex to solve the problem, and then sex is not so good, I promise it will only make things worse between the two of you.
When my ex and I did make-up sex, I irrationally expected her to be less selfish in bed, just because we used to do make-up. Often, even if not, it can be frustrating for both of us. Half the time, our make-up sex manages to piss me off. He would end up thinking we were honest because we had make-up sex, but I would be harsher than ever because I wasn't satisfied. So, most of the time, all our sex make-up is engrossed in it, telling me fortunes, and frustrating both of us.
- It will not replace forgiveness.
I fully understand that sometimes you can apologize without being "sorry." In my opinion, there is no such thing as humor or good sex than forgiveness. I'm not saying that kindness shouldn't be a part of forgiveness, but you and your partner must apologize.
- Can develop into unhealthy habits
We've established that sex makeup is not selfless, but if make-up sex is your way of dealing with conflict in your relationship, then formally, it's an unhealthy habit.
Speaking as someone who hates controversy, I know how easy it is to choose make-up sex when talking about an issue - especially if you don't feel bad about it. Can't speak to your partner about anything serious. But if you think that you and your partner can fight by doing make-up sex, you may need to re-evaluate your relationship. Or try to be more honest with your partner when you experience conflicts. If that doesn't work, know that no make-up sex will ever fix your relationship if your partner isn't ready to talk to you.
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